πŸ’­ Every Situation Has Two Handles


Hello friend,

I hope you've had a good week.

Before we launch into this weekend's digest, I want to let you know I'm taking an early summer break, so you will not hear from me for the next two weekends. I plan to be back in your inbox on 5 July. While I am away, don't forget you have access to my archives:

OK, that's it for housekeeping.

My favourite doodle this week was inspired by Stoicism. Epictetus said that every situation presents us with two handles. One leads to frustration and negativity, while the other offers understanding and growth. The choice of which handle to grasp is ours. I like this idea; it reminds us that even when we feel we've lost control of a situation, we can reclaim some agency if we want to.

Now, your weekly digest...


✏️ Doodle Essays

Here is this week's short essay collection:

And here are the doodles:


πŸ“š Read

I enjoyed the following articles this week:

If you're curious about the books I'm reading, you can see my library in Tana here: Library. I am particularly enjoying Jacinda Ardern's autobiography, A Different Kind of Power and expect to finish it this weekend.

My short attention span is also getting so much joy from Murdle puzzles right now...


πŸ“Ί Watch

This week, I (re)watched Matt Walker's classic TED talk about sleep as part of some research. It's a masterclass in delivering a complex topic in an engaging and accessible way; the information is actionable and an essential piece of the wellbeing puzzle. Enjoy...

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🎧 Listen

I loved this recent episode of the Louis Theroux podcast, in which he interviewed Ed Sheeran. Although I'm more of a Louis fan than an Ed fan, I found the conversation entertaining and engaging. Heads up: The episode includes a few swear words and talks about the death of Ed's best friend.

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That's all from me today. I'll be in touch again in a couple of weeks.

Best wishes,

Martine


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Martine Ellis

Sustainable productivity starts with wellbeing. Each weekend, I share practical strategies, short essays, doodles, and recommendations to help you live and work in a way that supports your wellbeing.

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